I found these in my Email today,,
Friday, September 29, 2006
Thursday, September 28, 2006
What happen at the Pentagon
Follow this link, What really happen at the Pentagon on 9/11
This is very interesting site.
I was told the US Govt was deleting this link off of US Servers.......
This is very interesting site.
I was told the US Govt was deleting this link off of US Servers.......
Monday, September 25, 2006
Aol Email internet t
http://www.dearaol.com/
What's This About?
In February 2006, AOL announced that it would accept payment for incoming emails. For these certified emails, it would skip its usual anti-spam filters and guarantee delivery for cash. Our coalition believes that the free passage of email between Internet users is a vital part of what makes the Internet work. When ISPs demand a cut of "pay-to-send" email, they're raising tollbooths on the open Net, interfering with the passage of data by demanding protection money at the gates of their customers' computers
From: all@dearaol.com
To: postmaster@aol.com
Date: Tue Feb 28 13:00:00 EST 2006
Subject: An Open Letter To America Online
We wish to express our serious concern with AOL's adoption of Goodmail's CertifiedEmail, which is a threat to the free and open Internet.
This system would create a two-tiered Internet in which affluent mass emailers could pay AOL a fee that amounts to an "email tax" for every email sent, in return for a guarantee that such messages would bypass spam filters and go directly to AOL members' inboxes. Those who did not pay the "email tax" would increasingly be left behind with unreliable service. Your customers expect that your first obligation is to deliver all of their wanted mail, and this plan is a step away from that obligation.
AOL's "email tax" is the first step down a slippery slope that will harm the Internet itself. The Internet is a revolutionary force for free speech, civic organizing, and economic innovation precisely because it is open and accessible to all Internet users equally. On a free and open Internet, small ideas can become big ideas overnight. As Internet advocacy groups, charities, non-profits, businesses, civic organizing groups, and email experts, we ask you to reconsider your pay-to-send proposal and to keep the Internet free.
A pay-to-send system won't help the fight against spam - in fact, this plan assumes that spam will continue and that mass mailers will be willing to pay to have their emails bypass spam filters. And non-paying spammers will not reduce the amount of mail they throw at your filters simply because others pay to evade them.
Perversely, the new two-tiered system AOL proposes would actually reward AOL financially for failing to maintain its email service. The chief advantage of paying to send CertifiedEmail is that it can bypass AOL's spam filters. Non-paying customers are being asked to trust that after paid mail goes into effect, AOL will properly maintain its spam filters so only unwanted mail gets thrown away.
But the economic incentives point the other way: The moment AOL switches to a two-tiered Internet where giant emailers pay for preferential service, AOL will face a simple business choice: spend money to keep regular spam filters up-to-date, or make money by neglecting their spam filters and pushing more senders to pay for guaranteed delivery. Poor delivery of mail turns from being a problem that AOL has every incentive to fix to something that could actually make them money if the company ignores it.
The bottom-line is that charging an "email tax" actually gives AOL a financial incentive to degrade email for non-paying senders. This would disrupt the communications of millions who cannot afford to pay your fees-including the non-profits, civic organizations, charities, small businesses, and community mailing lists that have arisen for every topic under the sun and that make email so vital to your subscribers.
And what if other Internet service providers retaliate and start demanding their own ransoms to accept mail from your millions of users? Your company works hard to simplify the Internet. Don't start a surcharge war that will complicate it with tiered services and dozens of middleman fees for every simple act of communication.
We have always been happy working together with you to fight spam and phishing. We have a common enemy in spammers. We are happy to work together to develop open approaches that attack the problem of spam and phishing. But a pay-to-send "certified" system does not help to fight spam. It only serves to make the Internet less free for everyone. We stand together in asking you to reconsider your decision to use CertifiedEmail.
Respectfully,
Badon presses for HIV tests in prisons
Badon presses for HIV tests in prisons
He vows to work to cut proposal's cost
Friday, September 15, 2006
By Ed Anderson
Capital bureau
BATON ROUGE -- Louisiana prison officials should be required to test all 38,000 state inmates in custody and the 15,000 who pass through the system each year for AIDS, HIV and hepatitis, Rep. Austin Badon, D-New Orleans, said Thursday.
Badon told a meeting of the House Committee on the Administration of Criminal Justice that he will file a bill for the April legislative session to make that happen.
He said the measure will start out as a carbon copy of House Bill 1166, which he filed for this year's session but did not push. He asked the committee to study the issue for debate at the session that starts April 30.
The Legislative Fiscal Office, the arm of the Legislature that analyzes the costs of proposed laws, said the cost of Badon's previous bill was about $14 million for the first year the testing and treatment program is in effect and $17 million the second year.
After that, the costs would level off to about $11.2 million a year, according to analyst Kristy Freeman.
Badon said the bill will contain language requiring prison officials to segregate inmates who test positive for the diseases, and would give prison officials the right to use "reasonable force in cases where an individual refuses to submit to (the) testing required."
"Public health issues far outweigh the privacy issues" of the individual inmates, Badon said. "These people have given up their rights (while in prison)."
One of the first things a male inmate does when released is return to his wife or girlfriend for, in many cases unprotected sexual activity, putting innocent people at risk, Badon said.
"It is a no-brainer to do what we can," he said.
He will work with Department of Public Safety and Corrections Secretary Richard Stalder and other state officials to reduce the costs of the testing and treatment, Badon said.
"The only way we can get our arms around AIDS cases is to reduce the number of new cases" and Badon's proposal takes a step in that direction, Dr. Kevin Stephens, director of the New Orleans Health Department, told the panel.
The state should have as its goal reducing the number of new HIV cases among inmates by 50 percent in five years, Stephens said.
Stalder told the committee that he can test all inmates if the Legislature approves enough money.
For Badon's previous bill, Freeman estimated that HIV and hepatitis tests cost about $40 each and treatment for various forms of hepatitis vary from $7,000 to $13,000 a year per case. HIV treatment costs run about $21,000 annually per case.
Stalder said of the 20,000 inmates in state-run prisons, 520 have been diagnosed with HIV and 390 are in treatment now.
He said the others may not want to be treated or the medicines prescribed may cause other health problems.
Stalder said there are about 2,000 inmates diagnosed with hepatitis C, but the state has financed treatment for only 55. He said many of the cases are not far enough along to be treated or "do not fit the treatment profile," including those who voluntarily agree not to take treatments or decline treatment because of the virulent drugs involved in addressing the illness.
Others, he said, will be out of jail in time to have nonprison doctors treat them.
"We cannot force treatment . . . if an individual elects not to participate" in the program, Stalder said. "The treatment for HIV and hepatitis C is very difficult. You have to be highly motivated to participate in these treatment regimens."
Stalder said his agency and the Department of Health and Hospital's Office of Public Health are looking for federal dollars to finance programs to prevent the spread of HIV, AIDS and hepatitis among inmates released by supplying them with condoms and education on ways to prevent the spread of the diseases and ways to treat them.
"Education is the key," Stalder said.
Badon said that approach won't work since most inmates released are undereducated and are used to a criminal lifestyle. As a result, mandatory testing is needed to stop the spread of the diseases, he said.
. . . . . . .
Ed Anderson can be reached at eanderson@timespicayune.com or (225) 342-5810
He vows to work to cut proposal's cost
Friday, September 15, 2006
By Ed Anderson
Capital bureau
BATON ROUGE -- Louisiana prison officials should be required to test all 38,000 state inmates in custody and the 15,000 who pass through the system each year for AIDS, HIV and hepatitis, Rep. Austin Badon, D-New Orleans, said Thursday.
Badon told a meeting of the House Committee on the Administration of Criminal Justice that he will file a bill for the April legislative session to make that happen.
He said the measure will start out as a carbon copy of House Bill 1166, which he filed for this year's session but did not push. He asked the committee to study the issue for debate at the session that starts April 30.
The Legislative Fiscal Office, the arm of the Legislature that analyzes the costs of proposed laws, said the cost of Badon's previous bill was about $14 million for the first year the testing and treatment program is in effect and $17 million the second year.
After that, the costs would level off to about $11.2 million a year, according to analyst Kristy Freeman.
Badon said the bill will contain language requiring prison officials to segregate inmates who test positive for the diseases, and would give prison officials the right to use "reasonable force in cases where an individual refuses to submit to (the) testing required."
"Public health issues far outweigh the privacy issues" of the individual inmates, Badon said. "These people have given up their rights (while in prison)."
One of the first things a male inmate does when released is return to his wife or girlfriend for, in many cases unprotected sexual activity, putting innocent people at risk, Badon said.
"It is a no-brainer to do what we can," he said.
He will work with Department of Public Safety and Corrections Secretary Richard Stalder and other state officials to reduce the costs of the testing and treatment, Badon said.
"The only way we can get our arms around AIDS cases is to reduce the number of new cases" and Badon's proposal takes a step in that direction, Dr. Kevin Stephens, director of the New Orleans Health Department, told the panel.
The state should have as its goal reducing the number of new HIV cases among inmates by 50 percent in five years, Stephens said.
Stalder told the committee that he can test all inmates if the Legislature approves enough money.
For Badon's previous bill, Freeman estimated that HIV and hepatitis tests cost about $40 each and treatment for various forms of hepatitis vary from $7,000 to $13,000 a year per case. HIV treatment costs run about $21,000 annually per case.
Stalder said of the 20,000 inmates in state-run prisons, 520 have been diagnosed with HIV and 390 are in treatment now.
He said the others may not want to be treated or the medicines prescribed may cause other health problems.
Stalder said there are about 2,000 inmates diagnosed with hepatitis C, but the state has financed treatment for only 55. He said many of the cases are not far enough along to be treated or "do not fit the treatment profile," including those who voluntarily agree not to take treatments or decline treatment because of the virulent drugs involved in addressing the illness.
Others, he said, will be out of jail in time to have nonprison doctors treat them.
"We cannot force treatment . . . if an individual elects not to participate" in the program, Stalder said. "The treatment for HIV and hepatitis C is very difficult. You have to be highly motivated to participate in these treatment regimens."
Stalder said his agency and the Department of Health and Hospital's Office of Public Health are looking for federal dollars to finance programs to prevent the spread of HIV, AIDS and hepatitis among inmates released by supplying them with condoms and education on ways to prevent the spread of the diseases and ways to treat them.
"Education is the key," Stalder said.
Badon said that approach won't work since most inmates released are undereducated and are used to a criminal lifestyle. As a result, mandatory testing is needed to stop the spread of the diseases, he said.
. . . . . . .
Ed Anderson can be reached at eanderson@timespicayune.com or (225) 342-5810
Aunt Bruce,
View From Bruce
Advocate (The national gay & lesbian newsmagazine)
November 09, 2004
Boo! We’re gay!
By Bruce Vilanch
From The Advocate, November 09, 2004
This Halloween I’m going as Condoleezza Rice. She’s the scariest thing I can think of. I mean, here she is, a concert pianist right up there at the Miss America level, working for that cowpoke in the nest of vipers they used to call the White House. My wish for Condi is that after she is routed from Washington, someone gives her a talk show and puts it opposite Oprah. That ought to finish her off for all time. She’d have to give away more than a Pontiac to make me pay attention to her. Nevertheless, she is my ghoul of choice this year.
You’ll have to look hard for the Condoleezzas at this year’s big Halloween parades. Even the Log Cabin Republicans don’t want to dress up as Condoleezza. Of course, they don’t dress up. Oh, they may go from a two-button Brooks Brothers to a three-button model, but they never can be counted on to spring for anything with too much oomph in it. My theory is that as gay Republicans, they spend most of their time beating themselves up in the parking lot, and there are just so many hours in a day.
They actually got some mainstream press this year when they refused to endorse Shrub for reelection, which most gay people greeted with a hearty “Welcome back to our planet, girls.” Even so, they cannot be counted on for Halloween.
We’re talking about perhaps the biggest gay holiday of the year—bigger than gay pride, because even self-conscious straight people can celebrate Halloween with us without fear. Along with Mardi Gras, Halloween is a time when even the straightest individual can be gay for a night, dancing and prancing dressed up as some other gender or species. But Mardi Gras, with its emphasis on debauchery and hurling chunks onto the sidewalk outside every bar, has a far more sinister bent than good old Halloween, with its ghosts and goblins and big-boobed bimbo vampires like Elvira, Mistress of the Dark.
Although not gay herself, Cassandra Peterson, the actress who created Elvira, is a living testament to her own smart marketing of something quintessentially gay. Peterson has managed to take her heavily mascaraed alter ego from a very gay, campy local Los Angeles TV show, where she made pricelessly bitchy comments while screening old horror movies, to being the symbol of Halloween slapped on the side of 12-packs of beer every October. Of course, the giant jugs help.
But Halloween was the gay national holiday long before Elvira. Some years ago in Chicago there was a big drag ball the Saturday before Halloween. It was on that Saturday because if October 31 fell on a weeknight, the chances for real revelry were somewhat diminished, so we were guaranteed at least one October night to howl. It was called the Bitches’ Christmas, which at the time had a double-edged meaning. It was our holiday, a trivial day made important to us because they would never let us celebrate their holiday. Families weren’t quite so loving and inclusive to their gay children back then. There was no PFLAG, if you catch my drift.
Now, of course, everybody celebrates everything, and Halloween has become such a big business that it actually gets in the way of Christmas—which, if Madison Avenue had its way, would start being celebrated the Tuesday after Labor Day. It’s no secret why gay people love Halloween. Sure, straight people like it too. But deep down, we know: Halloween is for gay people.
Halloween was the one night of the year when it was all right to wear a mask—a fun mask, as opposed to that protective mask most of us wore every day of our lives. On Halloween everybody was wearing masks. That free, crazy, anything-goes spirit that puritan America kept chained in the basement was allowed to breathe free, if only for one night. It was intoxicating.
It’s funny to remember how far straight people would go to put together a look for Halloween, even back when. That’s something most gay people had to do every single day for as long as they lived. For one night a year, our misery had company.
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Sunday, September 24, 2006
Thursday, September 21, 2006
Brent Castillo: Don't Use Religion as Justification for Hate
The Wichita Eagle
http://www.topix.net/content/kri/2003987238259187411740769781743578324528
September 13, 2006
We have just enough religion to make us hate, but not enough to make us love one another.
President Bush raised some eyebrows last month when he spoke of fighting 'Islamic fascism.' Some Muslims were upset, including Parvez Ahmed, chairman of the Council on American-Islamic Relations, who said in an open letter to the president that the term 'contributes to a rising level of hostility to Islam and the American-Muslim community.'
In his Sept. 11 address, Bush toned down his description to 'perverted vision of Islam.'
I'm not a Muslim, but to me, either description seems appropriate.
The term 'fascism' was originally used by Italy's dictator, Benito Mussolini, in the 1930s and '40s, and exalted the state and race above the individual. In more recent usage, 'fascism' refers to autocratic or dictatorial control. When you combine the current usage with the fact that terrorists have justified their actions through their faith in Islam, then 'Islamic fascism' seems reasonable.
Islamic leaders such as Ahmed are rightly concerned about hostility, but his complaintswould carry more weight if the worldwide Muslim communityloudly condemned acts of terrorism and the fringe theology that condones them.
A good case study, on a much smaller scale, of how radical religion should be treated can be found here in Kansas. Fred Phelps, the Christian minister from Topeka, spews his hatred of homosexuals and our country wherever he can and to whomever he pleases. But he is roundly condemned by most Christians. Even people who agree with him in principle about the immorality of homosexuality are quick to criticize his methodology and rigid theology.
The Muslim community in Wichita has strongly condemned terrorism and the perversion of Islam. But the worldwide community needs to make a concerted, unified effort to marginalize and shrink the radical elements within its faith. Until then, the complaints about using the fascist label likely won't carry much weight with many non-Muslims.
Religion should be used to make a positive change in people. I chose Christianity because I believe its teachings are true. Millions of others have chosen Islam for the same reason. We may disagree, but we shouldn't use our faith as a justification to hate or hurt others.
Author Jonathan Swift made a wise point when he acknowledged a potential shortcoming of faith:
'We have just enough religion to make us hate, but not enough to make us love one another.'
Let's not use religion as a justification for hate. And let's not stand by as others pervert faith, using hatred for their own gain.
ACLU challenges Ohio's anti-Phelps law as too broad
THIS IS JUST TO SICK FOR WORDS, ACLU HELP GAYS TO GET THE VERY BASIC RIGHTS THAT EVERY HAS. THEN OTHER FACE OF THE ACLU HELP THIS ASSHOLE....
by Anthony Glassman
Cleveland--The ACLU of Ohio is challenging a new state law intended to keep a notorious anti-gay preacher from picketing the funerals of soldiers killed in Iraq.
The legislature passed the Rest in Peace Act last spring. The ACLU says the measure is overly broad and filed suit against it on August 24, shortly after it took effect.
The act was a reaction to protests by Fred Phelps’ Westboro Baptist Church of Topeka, Kansas, an unaffiliated congregation with a history of virulently anti-gay rhetoric.
Phelps’ church, which is mostly his extended family, has traveled the country since the early 1990s, protesting funerals of people who died of AIDS and hate crime victims like Matthew Shepard. They wave signs reading “God hates fags” and “Thank God for 9/11.”
In the past year, the group has taken to picketing the funerals of soldiers killed in Iraq, promoting Phelps’ line that God is punishing soldiers because the United States shelters homosexuals and is filled with “fag enablers.”
The church’s protests led to a federal law barring demonstrations at federal cemeteries, and states across the country have passed similar measures.
Ohio’s law bans protests during funerals and an hour before or afterward, creating a 300-foot protest-free zone around the funeral home, cemetery and funeral procession.
“The ban is far too broad,” said ACLU of Ohio legal director Jeffrey Gamso. “The time restraints, free speech ‘bubble’ and the fact that it will move with the funeral procession will effectively prohibit protesting for large amounts of time in many communities around Ohio.”
“If a political group wanted to have a demonstration on Main Street and a funeral procession was driving by, they would not be permitted to continue, even if the protest has nothing to do with the funeral,” he said. “That is clearly too strict and would severely limit free speech.”
Similar laws have been challenged in other states, including Kentucky, though none of those challenges have yet been decided.
ACLU of Ohio Executive Director Chris Link brought up the example of striking workers picketing outside their place of employment. She said that, as the law stands, if a funeral procession drove by, the workers would have to stop.
The Westboro demonstrators have spurred another backlash: the Patriot Guard Riders, a group of 53,000 people nationwide who attend military funerals to show their respect and, if need be, block protesters from view.
Patriot Guard Riders were present at the funeral earlier this year of Mark Todd Shinkle, the president of the Buckeye Region American Veterans for Equal Rights.
“We do it to respect and honor the soldier and support the family,” Bob “Tater” Smith, a Sandusky veteran, told the Toledo Blade of the Patriot Guard Riders’ mission. The group has 1,600 members in Ohio.
Smith believes the Rest in Peace Act is unnecessary and will be more trouble than it’s worth.
“They threaten more than they show up,” he said of Westboro Baptist Church. “If you ignore them, they just go away. Our way costs a lot less for the taxpayers.”
Tuesday, September 19, 2006
Are Lance Bass and Reichen Lehmkuhl Award Worthy?
A big gay debate has been raging over the past week about whether or not Lance Bass and Reichen Lehmkuhl should be honored with a Visibility Award at the upcoming HRC National Dinner in Washington.
Longtime HRC supporter Randy Foster got the ball rolling with a Washington Blade guest editorial in which he explained why Bass/Lehmkuhl are not worthy of the honor. Foster starts off:
Foster lambasts Bass for publicly stating that the pop star has no interest in being a gay activist. About Lehmkuhl, the author says the 'Amazing Race' star is someone whose "greatest achievement since [his TV show] has been being photographed shirtless for countless gay publications."
Foster accuses HRC of honoring the pair not because they deserve it, but because their celebrity will help sell tickets and bring glamour to the organization's black-tie dinner, for which patrons (including Foster himself) pay $250 and up to attend.
HRC board member Mary Snider defended the organization's choice to honor the celebrity gay guys, writing in a letter to the editor that "HRC understands that there are many different ways to help fight ignorance and bigotry ... Lance and Reichen are just starting to speak out. We hope that they will do much more in the years ahead, using their unique status to raise awareness and open hearts and minds."
It's my opinion that one of the main problems in this particular instance is that a lot of people can't stand Lance and Reichen. If Denzel Washington had been dragged out of the closet (no, he's not gay), I rather doubt that HRC supporters would be complaining about him showing up for dinner and we wouldn't be having this discussion.
Boy-band-Lance isn't taken very seriously because, well, he was in a boy band, and he had some crazy notion about buying a flight into space, and he's only out because he was outed. Reichen, for whatever reason, turns a lot of gay men off. Perhaps HRC's biggest mistake was not anticipating those sentiments.
In HRC's defense, though, Lance and Reichen are this year's biggest gay celebrity story, even if the details and characters of the story don't exactly thrill everyone in the GLBT community.
Further, if HRC limited its Visibility Awards to openly-gay celebrities who are also accomplished gay activists, I think it's safe to say they would have a basement full of crystal trophies and few people to whom they could award them.
So then, is any celebrity visibility, good visibility? One blogger and self-avowed Bitter Queen frames the debate this way:
Not everyone who reads this is going to have a lot of sympathy for those who are upset because the wrong celebrities are polluting their black-tie dinner in Washington, but that aside, where do you come down on this story: Are Lance and Reichen good or bad for gay visibility, and do they deserve this award?
Longtime HRC supporter Randy Foster got the ball rolling with a Washington Blade guest editorial in which he explained why Bass/Lehmkuhl are not worthy of the honor. Foster starts off:
A FRIEND CALLED this week to ask, “Do we really have to go to the HRC Dinner? For Christ’s sake, they are honoring Lance Bass and Reichen Lehmkuhl!”
My first thought was it had to be a joke.
Foster lambasts Bass for publicly stating that the pop star has no interest in being a gay activist. About Lehmkuhl, the author says the 'Amazing Race' star is someone whose "greatest achievement since [his TV show] has been being photographed shirtless for countless gay publications."
Foster accuses HRC of honoring the pair not because they deserve it, but because their celebrity will help sell tickets and bring glamour to the organization's black-tie dinner, for which patrons (including Foster himself) pay $250 and up to attend.
HRC board member Mary Snider defended the organization's choice to honor the celebrity gay guys, writing in a letter to the editor that "HRC understands that there are many different ways to help fight ignorance and bigotry ... Lance and Reichen are just starting to speak out. We hope that they will do much more in the years ahead, using their unique status to raise awareness and open hearts and minds."
It's my opinion that one of the main problems in this particular instance is that a lot of people can't stand Lance and Reichen. If Denzel Washington had been dragged out of the closet (no, he's not gay), I rather doubt that HRC supporters would be complaining about him showing up for dinner and we wouldn't be having this discussion.
Boy-band-Lance isn't taken very seriously because, well, he was in a boy band, and he had some crazy notion about buying a flight into space, and he's only out because he was outed. Reichen, for whatever reason, turns a lot of gay men off. Perhaps HRC's biggest mistake was not anticipating those sentiments.
In HRC's defense, though, Lance and Reichen are this year's biggest gay celebrity story, even if the details and characters of the story don't exactly thrill everyone in the GLBT community.
Further, if HRC limited its Visibility Awards to openly-gay celebrities who are also accomplished gay activists, I think it's safe to say they would have a basement full of crystal trophies and few people to whom they could award them.
So then, is any celebrity visibility, good visibility? One blogger and self-avowed Bitter Queen frames the debate this way:
"Indeed, how many times have I read editorials in the gay press insisting that pop stars and other celebrities have an obligation to come out of the closet precisely because their fame alone would give a boost to our cause and provide visible role models in the community? And now that Mr. Bass has done so, Mr. Foster diminishes the importance of that event. Talk about damned if you do, damned if you don't."
Not everyone who reads this is going to have a lot of sympathy for those who are upset because the wrong celebrities are polluting their black-tie dinner in Washington, but that aside, where do you come down on this story: Are Lance and Reichen good or bad for gay visibility, and do they deserve this award?
The Things I would like to Do
Hey guys, how is everyone. I know this guy isn't young but there just something about him that drive me crazy. maybe its his smile. are the fact that he is straight.
You ask how do I know this.... Well I found His yahoo profile one day why on line in Elizabeth City, using their's free WIFI at the water front. I im him. told him what i want to do. first he said no, he wasn't that way, i said ok, and later
but he kept im-ing me, asking more questions about the bj i offer him.
Sorry to say that we never hook up, but i sure this guy will inthe future will have his first man on man action. I can only hope it will be me.................
Sunday, September 17, 2006
Today's Hottie
From my files, I must said that this one is a major cutie, then agian what do I know. I love men and all men, from every race.
However I have notice that I have different standards for each race. I guess we all do.
Barney Frank reveals "gay agenda"
Although openly gay representative Tammy Baldwin (D-Wis.) addressed the Democratic National Convention in Boston on Monday afternoon, she did not talk about gay and lesbian rights. Cheryl Jacques, executive director of the nonpartisan gay rights group Human Rights Campaign, spoke about GLBT rights on Wednesday, but apart from passing references to gay people in other politicians' speeches, the only elected official to address the delegates at length about gay and lesbian equality has been openly gay congressman Barney Frank (D-Mass.).By Fred Kuhr
An Advocate.com exclusive posted July 30, 2004
Following is a transcript of Frank's remarks Thursday evening from the podium of the Democratic National Convention:
"On behalf of the Stonewall Democratic Federation, the national organization of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered Democrats, I want to apologize to some people whose peace of mind we seem to be disturbing.
"I want to apologize to the various self-proclaimed divine messengers who appear deeply troubled by a dark plot they label the 'gay agenda.'
"Troubled as I am by the prospect of these pious men denied a good night's sleep by their need to be eternally vigilant against us, I have decided to break the silence, decode the cryptogram, unravel the mystery, and tip our hand. We have an agenda, and we hope to achieve it through the Democratic Party.
"Specifically, we want all people in the United States to enjoy the same legal rights as everyone else, unless they have forfeited them by violating the rights of others. We believe this should include some things that are, apparently, very controversial.
"They include the right to serve, fight, and even die on behalf of our country in the military; the right to earn a living by working hard and being judged wholly on the quality of our work; the right for teenagers to attend high school without being shoved, punched, or otherwise attacked; and, yes, the right to express not only love for another person but a willingness to be legally as well as morally responsible for his or her well-being."We also believe that we--and all Americans--should enjoy full access to health care; that strong environmental protection is fully compatible with economic prosperity.
We know that the free market is the best way to generate our national wealth; and that we need cooperation between the private and public sectors to be sure that we as a society and as individuals get the maximum benefit from the wealth by the quality of all our lives."We are also convinced that America must not only remain the strongest nation in the world, but that our strength is magnified, not diminished, when we work with other nations and institutions for common goals."Some of these things are especially important to us because we are gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgendered.
All are important to us as people."And taken together, it is why we are the national Stonewall GLBT Democratic Federation."
An Advocate.com exclusive posted July 30, 2004
Following is a transcript of Frank's remarks Thursday evening from the podium of the Democratic National Convention:
"On behalf of the Stonewall Democratic Federation, the national organization of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered Democrats, I want to apologize to some people whose peace of mind we seem to be disturbing.
"I want to apologize to the various self-proclaimed divine messengers who appear deeply troubled by a dark plot they label the 'gay agenda.'
"Troubled as I am by the prospect of these pious men denied a good night's sleep by their need to be eternally vigilant against us, I have decided to break the silence, decode the cryptogram, unravel the mystery, and tip our hand. We have an agenda, and we hope to achieve it through the Democratic Party.
"Specifically, we want all people in the United States to enjoy the same legal rights as everyone else, unless they have forfeited them by violating the rights of others. We believe this should include some things that are, apparently, very controversial.
"They include the right to serve, fight, and even die on behalf of our country in the military; the right to earn a living by working hard and being judged wholly on the quality of our work; the right for teenagers to attend high school without being shoved, punched, or otherwise attacked; and, yes, the right to express not only love for another person but a willingness to be legally as well as morally responsible for his or her well-being."We also believe that we--and all Americans--should enjoy full access to health care; that strong environmental protection is fully compatible with economic prosperity.
We know that the free market is the best way to generate our national wealth; and that we need cooperation between the private and public sectors to be sure that we as a society and as individuals get the maximum benefit from the wealth by the quality of all our lives."We are also convinced that America must not only remain the strongest nation in the world, but that our strength is magnified, not diminished, when we work with other nations and institutions for common goals."Some of these things are especially important to us because we are gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgendered.
All are important to us as people."And taken together, it is why we are the national Stonewall GLBT Democratic Federation."
Todays Hottie-Alex
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alex_16_nj
Real Name:
Alex
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Freehold, NJ
Age:
18
Marital Status:
Single And Looking
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Male
Occupation:
Student
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Im Gay. Me and my family are nudists. I like to meet new people and party. Im 5-7, Brown hair, blue eyes and Im 120 lbs. I like to play tennis, soccer, and other stuff. I want to be a model and maybe e
Latest News:
Its just me and my dad. Mom died when i was born. But its kool.
Favorite Quote:
Queer As Folks ROCKS
Interests
Naturists and Nudists
Boys
Teen
Family
Pitt, Brad
Photography
Teenagers
Exhibitionism and Voyeurism
New Jersey
Gay Men
Masturbation
Older Men
Gay Rights
Youth
Interracial
Dads
Hot Boys
Bottom
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Gay Male
Bears
Bareback
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Boyzone
Jerky Boys
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Affleck, Ben
DiCaprio, Leonardo
Boyz II Men
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Men
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What is the Story
CAN ANYONE TELL ME WHY YOUNG MEN LOVE TO TEASE US LIK THIS. SHOWING OFF THEIR HOT YOUNG BODIES. MAKING US WANT THEM.
I ONLY WISH I COULD TOUCH THIS ONE IN MANY HOT WAYS. AND I WOULD LIKE TO LICK HIM ALL OVER..
Saturday, September 16, 2006
The big lie about gay men and sex
The big lie about gay men and sex (Gay)
If straight men could find sex in public restrooms with women, we’d never be able to use the facilities for legit purposes.
By WAYNE BESEN
Friday, September 15, 2006
THE WORLD OF men can be divided into two groups: Those who feel empty after a one-night stand and those who roll over and go to bed feeling completely satisfied.
This emotional divide among males is equally as dramatic as the more publicized difference in sexual orientation between gay and straight men. Yet the phenomenon is rarely talked about as the conventional wisdom wrongly concludes that “men are pigs.”
The gulf between the men who oink and boink and those who bed and wed is worth exploring. It seems to me that these men have little in common, as pigs are from Pluto and mensches are from Mars.
This split in the way men think about sex is best illustrated in listening to the two groups discuss former President Bill Clinton’s dalliance with Monica Lewinsky.
The mensches scratch their heads and ask, “How on earth could he do that? How can a man cheat on his wife and squander his presidency for a moment of joy with a chubby intern?”
While the pigs were disappointed with Clinton, on a fundamental level they understood his actions. “He was alone in the Oval Office, he was probably under a lot of stress, Monica walked in, and things just sort of happened,” they reason.
What flummoxes the pigs, more than Clinton’s behavior, is the mensches’ genuine bewilderment of how a man might jeopardize power over a fleeting moment of sexual gratification.
THIS BATTLE OF the male brain is now playing itself out in gay society after paparazzi ambushed pop star George Michael coming out of the bushes following a supposed sexcapade with a pot-bellied peasant.
Michael, for his part, implied that his behavior was a result of entrenched gay customs. “Are you gay?” he asked the paparazzi, “No? Then fuck off. This is my culture.”
That may have been true in the 1970s, when gay culture had been set up to accommodate married men on the sly. Back in those days, bathhouses were hugely popular and the gay bars had blackened out windows, creating a virtual cocktail-serving closet. Many of the patrons had to have sex away from home to keep the secret from an unsuspecting wife and kids.
Of course, there was a portion of men who did have options — just as Michael does today — but who enjoyed unfettered promiscuity for the thrill.
With time, the ease with which people could come out, combined with the fear of contracting HIV, sharply curtailed the carnal carnival the gay subculture once represented.
The whole notion that gay men are more libidinous than straight men is a canard pushed by right wing fanatics in an effort to deny homosexuals basic rights. Indeed, one of the most guarded secrets of gay life is that a good portion of homosexuals are as undersexed as their straight counterparts.
Some of these lonely gay sorts keep long hours at the office and don’t have time to pursue partners. Others are shy and have great difficulty meeting people. Many men, gay and straight, simply have low sex drives and hardly desire gratuitous encounters.
From my observation, a surprisingly large portion of men find the notion of hooking up with strangers totally unappealing. It is not looks nor variety, but intimacy that is the greatest turn on.
FOR THE HYPER-AGGRESSIVE men who fancy uninhibited sexual exploration, it is easier being gay because you can always find another man looking for the same thing. But, instead of being blamed for a lack of self-control, most gay men should get a medal for restraint.
Heck, if straight men could have sex in public restrooms with women, would we ever again be able to use the facilities for legitimate purposes? If straight men could easily pick up women for sex in parks after midnight, would the grounds be so trodden that ants would become an endangered species?
Yeah, gay men have access to sex if they want it bad enough and are willing to take risks, like George Michael did, but the majority consistently chooses not to recklessly cruise.
George Michael may “want his sex,” but placing the blame on “gay culture” no longer reflects modern reality. Given a full range of choices, including marriage, gay life increasingly looks as diverse as mainstream culture — with monogamously oriented men finally having the option to choose monogamy.
Spain's First Military Gay Wedding
(Seville, Spain) The Spanish military - once a crusty remnant of a right-wing regime closely linked to the Roman Catholic Church - got its first public taste of gay marriage Friday as two male soldiers wed, sealing their union with gold rings and a long kiss.
Alberto Linero, 27, and Alberto Sanchez, 24, both privates in the air force, wore dark blue dress uniforms with red and gold epaulets as they exchanged vows in a reception room at Seville's town hall - the first known wedding among same-sex members of the military since Spain legalized gay marriage last year.
Some members of the military may not be happy about the union - the grooms declined to say if they are suffering harassment from commanders or colleagues - but the Defense Ministry has said it considers the wedding a personal matter and the men will be allowed to continue with their careers. It had no comment Friday on the nuptials.
Spain has no law against gays in the military, and other service members have acknowledged their homosexuality in the past.
In the United States, the Pentagon's "don't ask, don't tell" policy prohibits the military from inquiring about the sex lives of service members but requires those who openly acknowledge being gay to be discharged.
The men were married by Seville Mayor Alfredo Sanchez Monteseirin, who said their wedding marked a victory for gay people everywhere who have suffered discrimination.
"This is not just your wedding. You symbolize millions of people who are not here and suffer from homophobia," Sanchez Monteseirin said. "The city will protect your rights."
After they were pronounced spouses, Linero and Sanchez placed gold rings on each other's fingers and shared a kiss. The 100 people in attendance clapped wildly. Sanchez later wept as he hugged his younger brother Sergio.
The mayor is a member of the Socialist party, which oversees a government that legalized gay marriage last year and has pushed through laws including fast-track divorce and easier terms for medically assisted fertilization.
The laws have irked the church and the country's conservative establishment, which has accused the government of tearing away at the nation's traditional values.
Addressing a gaggle of reporters after the ceremony, Linero said the wedding was a small step toward complete equality for homosexuals.
"We've done our little bit. We hope society realizes this," he said.
Some 4,500 same-sex couples have wed under the gay marriage legislation, which took effect in July 2005, according to the Justice Ministry.
The wedding is believed to be the first marriage between two same-sex members of the Spanish armed forces, said Beatriz Gimeno, president of Spain's Federation of Gays and Lesbians.
She welcomed the wedding as something the military and Spaniards in general have to get used to.
"I don't think the army in a democratic society has to be conservative," Gimeno said.
Besides Spain, the Netherlands, Canada and Belgium have legalized same-sex marriage, while Britain and other European countries have laws that give same-sex couples the right to form legally binding partnerships.
In the United States, only the state of Massachusetts allows gay marriage, while Vermont and Connecticut permit civil unions.
Monday, September 11, 2006
Dell Computers
Well I got my new Dell Computer catalog in the mail the other day. I see that the prices don't really match. Over all Dell's Computer are the best, however once in a while a bad one does get out.
I have a Dell Dimension 235 which is few years old, Recently I had do a re-install, since the kids allow too many spyware and adware install. The system was not up to working speed.
This was the first time I had to restall the system, the first time I broke the seal on the recovery disk. After what seen to two hours reinstalling everytime, i notice that the modem drivers was not install, and the modem drivers was on the disk they sent with the computer. I call Dell Support, which was no help at all. The guy told me that there should have be a disk for my modem sent with the computer. To cut it short I hung up on the guy.
I finially did get the drivers after search many sites to get them.
My other Dell is a Ispiron 9400/e1705, a duo core, very nice.
Over All Dell Support need some work.
I have a Dell Dimension 235 which is few years old, Recently I had do a re-install, since the kids allow too many spyware and adware install. The system was not up to working speed.
This was the first time I had to restall the system, the first time I broke the seal on the recovery disk. After what seen to two hours reinstalling everytime, i notice that the modem drivers was not install, and the modem drivers was on the disk they sent with the computer. I call Dell Support, which was no help at all. The guy told me that there should have be a disk for my modem sent with the computer. To cut it short I hung up on the guy.
I finially did get the drivers after search many sites to get them.
My other Dell is a Ispiron 9400/e1705, a duo core, very nice.
Over All Dell Support need some work.
Sunday, September 10, 2006
RTE News - US renews hunt for Osama bin Laden
RTE News - US renews hunt for Osama bin Laden: "The US Senate has voted to re-instate an intelligence unit that is dedicated to tracking down al-Qaeda leader Osama bin Laden.
In July, the CIA said the unit had been disbanded because al-Qaeda cells now operated independently from the organisation's leadership.
The decision to re-instate the unit was made as the Senate passed a $469 billion Pentagon funding bill amid bitter exchanges between Republicans and Democrats."
In July, the CIA said the unit had been disbanded because al-Qaeda cells now operated independently from the organisation's leadership.
The decision to re-instate the unit was made as the Senate passed a $469 billion Pentagon funding bill amid bitter exchanges between Republicans and Democrats."
Ethnic Cleansing in New Orleans
Ethnic Cleansing in New Orleans: "09/07/06 'Information Clearing House ' -- -- It was a year ago that hurricane Katrina struck the Gulf Coast region of the USA, and left a path of death and destruction in her wake. Well over a thousand human beings lost their lives in the floods that followed the tempest. Who can say how many people lost hope in the aftermath of that terrific storm?
Had Katrina hit an area of the country crowded with golf courses and country clubs the result would have been different. People with wealth and property matter in America; those without do not. America is a land where sharp divisions of class play an important role in deciding one�s fate. People are not treated equally here; although few will openly admit it in print. We are not supposed to bring up class warfare and other embarrassing traits stemming from capitalism. After all, we call ourselves a democracy, don�t we? "
Had Katrina hit an area of the country crowded with golf courses and country clubs the result would have been different. People with wealth and property matter in America; those without do not. America is a land where sharp divisions of class play an important role in deciding one�s fate. People are not treated equally here; although few will openly admit it in print. We are not supposed to bring up class warfare and other embarrassing traits stemming from capitalism. After all, we call ourselves a democracy, don�t we? "
Political Ponerology
The Scientific Study of Evil Adjusted for Political Purposesby Andrew M. Lobaczewski26.00 EurosNow: 20.00 Euros (Sale Price)
The first manuscript of this book went into the fire five minutes before the arrival of the secret police in Communist Poland. The second copy, reassembled painfully by scientists working under impossible conditions of repression, was sent via a courier to the Vatican. Its receipt was never acknowledged, no word was ever heard from the courier - the manuscript and all the valuable data was lost. The third copy was produced after one of the scientists working on the project escaped to America in the 1980s. Zbigniew Brzezinski suppressed it.
Political Ponerology: The scientific study of Evil adjusted for Political Purposes was forged in the crucible of the very subject it studies. Scientists living under an oppressive regime decide to study it clinically, to study the founders and supporters of an evil regime to determine what common factor is at play in the rise and propagation of man's inhumanity to man.
Shocking in its clinically spare descriptions of the true nature of evil, poignant in the more literary passages where the author reveals the suffering experienced by the researchers who were contaminated or destroyed by the disease they were studying, this is a book that should be required reading by every citizen of every country that claims a moral or humanistic foundation. For it is a certainty that morality and humanism cannot long withstand the predations of Evil. Knowledge of its nature, how it creates its networks and spreads, how insidious is its guileful approach, is the only antidote.ISBN 1-897244-18-5
What Really Happen at the Pentagon on 9.11.01
This link was sent to me by a friend,,, what really happen . WE HAVE THE RIGHT TO KNOW. THE GOVERNMENT IS COVERING SOMETHING UP.
THERE THREE OTHER VIDEOS THAT COULD SHOW WHAT HAPPEN, WHERE ARE THOSE TAPES TODAY.......
WE MUST ASK QUESTION AND DEMAND TO KNOW WHERE THEY ARE.....
THERE THREE OTHER VIDEOS THAT COULD SHOW WHAT HAPPEN, WHERE ARE THOSE TAPES TODAY.......
WE MUST ASK QUESTION AND DEMAND TO KNOW WHERE THEY ARE.....
Pope Tells Canada To End Gay Marriage
(Vatican City) Pope Benedict XVI hit out Friday at Canada's laws allowing same sex marriage and abortion, saying they result from Catholic politicians ignoring the values of their religion."In the name of 'tolerance' your country has had to endure the folly of the redefinition of spouse, and in the name of 'freedom of choice' it is confronted with the daily destruction of unborn children," the pope told a group of bishops from Ontario. Such laws, he said, are the result of "the exclusion of God from the public sphere."
Just who does he think he is. if anything he need to clean his own house before telling others what to do.
Just who does he think he is. if anything he need to clean his own house before telling others what to do.
Child sex-sting rabbi convicted in Virginia
SUMMARY: David A. Kaye was found guilty of two counts after a televised sting aided by the Internet watchdog group "Perverted Justice."
A Maryland rabbi caught in a nationally televised sex sting was convicted Wednesday of traveling to Virginia for sex with what he believed to be a 13-year-old boy he met over the Internet.
A federal judge in Alexandria, Va., found David A. Kaye, 56, of Rockville, Md., guilty of coercing and enticing a minor and of traveling across state lines for illegal sexual contact.
During a bench trial last month, prosecutors presented evidence of sexually graphic chats between Kaye and adults from an Internet watchdog group called Perverted Justice who were pretending to be minors.
The group was working with the NBC newsmagazine "Dateline," which paid the watchdog group to create a pedophile sting. Kaye was one of several men who showed up at a Herndon, Va., home and were confronted on camera by correspondent Chris Hansen.
U.S. District Judge James C. Cacheris wrote that prosecutors presented overwhelming evidence, including outtakes from the NBC show and a log of chats that Kaye initiated with the supposed 13-year-old. The judge noted that when confronted, Kaye told Hansen, "You know I'm in trouble. I know I'm in trouble."
Kaye acknowledged during his trial that he traveled to the home in hope of having sex, but said he always believed the person on the other end of the conversation was a young adult role-playing as a 13-year-old.
Kaye, who is divorced, acknowledged that he frequently had homosexual encounters with people he met in online chat rooms, but said none was a minor. He said he hid his homosexual activity over many decades from his wife of 30 years and from his former congregants in Potomac, Md.
In the wake of the sting, he resigned from his job as vice president of Rockville-based Jewish youth organization called PANIM: the Institute for Jewish Leaders and Values. Kaye, who has been jailed since his arrest in May, faces up to 60 years in prison when he is sentenced Dec. 1. (AP)
See it guys like this, that gives us a bad name. I also blame the cop that play a child on line to get these people in the first place.
However he should have know better, I sure he could find a guy over the age of 18 to play with.
A Maryland rabbi caught in a nationally televised sex sting was convicted Wednesday of traveling to Virginia for sex with what he believed to be a 13-year-old boy he met over the Internet.
A federal judge in Alexandria, Va., found David A. Kaye, 56, of Rockville, Md., guilty of coercing and enticing a minor and of traveling across state lines for illegal sexual contact.
During a bench trial last month, prosecutors presented evidence of sexually graphic chats between Kaye and adults from an Internet watchdog group called Perverted Justice who were pretending to be minors.
The group was working with the NBC newsmagazine "Dateline," which paid the watchdog group to create a pedophile sting. Kaye was one of several men who showed up at a Herndon, Va., home and were confronted on camera by correspondent Chris Hansen.
U.S. District Judge James C. Cacheris wrote that prosecutors presented overwhelming evidence, including outtakes from the NBC show and a log of chats that Kaye initiated with the supposed 13-year-old. The judge noted that when confronted, Kaye told Hansen, "You know I'm in trouble. I know I'm in trouble."
Kaye acknowledged during his trial that he traveled to the home in hope of having sex, but said he always believed the person on the other end of the conversation was a young adult role-playing as a 13-year-old.
Kaye, who is divorced, acknowledged that he frequently had homosexual encounters with people he met in online chat rooms, but said none was a minor. He said he hid his homosexual activity over many decades from his wife of 30 years and from his former congregants in Potomac, Md.
In the wake of the sting, he resigned from his job as vice president of Rockville-based Jewish youth organization called PANIM: the Institute for Jewish Leaders and Values. Kaye, who has been jailed since his arrest in May, faces up to 60 years in prison when he is sentenced Dec. 1. (AP)
See it guys like this, that gives us a bad name. I also blame the cop that play a child on line to get these people in the first place.
However he should have know better, I sure he could find a guy over the age of 18 to play with.
Brad Pitt, Angelina Jolie support same-sex marriage
Brad Pitt, ever the social activist, says he won't be marrying Angelina Jolie until the restrictions on who can marry whom are dropped.
"Angie and I will consider tying the knot when everyone else in the country who wants to be married is legally able," the 42-year-old actor reveals in Esquire magazine's October issue, on newsstands September 19.
In the article he reflects on "15 things I think everyone should know."
Though Shiloh, the world-famous daughter of Pitt and girlfriend–earth mother Jolie, hogged much attention upon her birth in May, Pitt says he "cannot imagine life" without adopted children Maddox, 5, and Zahara, 1.
"They're as much of my blood as any natural-born, and I'm theirs," says Pitt. "That's all I can say about it. I can't live without them. So anyone considering [adoption], that's my vote."
Pitt, who plays a world traveler in the upcoming drama Babel, subscribes to a laid-back parenting style. "I try not to stifle them in any way," he says. "If it's not hurting anyone, I want them to be able to explore. Sometimes that means they're quite rambunctious."
Lucky kids.
"I feel it's really important to have that time to sit and talk to them," he continues. "I really like that last minute before they fade off. And always give them a heads-up before you jerk them out of something. You need to tell them, like, 'You have three more minutes.' " (AP)
Well ain't that so nice of him.
"Angie and I will consider tying the knot when everyone else in the country who wants to be married is legally able," the 42-year-old actor reveals in Esquire magazine's October issue, on newsstands September 19.
In the article he reflects on "15 things I think everyone should know."
Though Shiloh, the world-famous daughter of Pitt and girlfriend–earth mother Jolie, hogged much attention upon her birth in May, Pitt says he "cannot imagine life" without adopted children Maddox, 5, and Zahara, 1.
"They're as much of my blood as any natural-born, and I'm theirs," says Pitt. "That's all I can say about it. I can't live without them. So anyone considering [adoption], that's my vote."
Pitt, who plays a world traveler in the upcoming drama Babel, subscribes to a laid-back parenting style. "I try not to stifle them in any way," he says. "If it's not hurting anyone, I want them to be able to explore. Sometimes that means they're quite rambunctious."
Lucky kids.
"I feel it's really important to have that time to sit and talk to them," he continues. "I really like that last minute before they fade off. And always give them a heads-up before you jerk them out of something. You need to tell them, like, 'You have three more minutes.' " (AP)
Well ain't that so nice of him.
Gay History = Human History
Gay History = Human History Brief gay history survey and guide to highlights History is written by the victors.
They choose what will be remembered, and what covered up. So it has been with male eros. Looking at any history textbook, one would think that never has a society praised love between men, never has a painter, a poet or a pope shared his bed and his heart with another male. Evidence of same-sex love has been either quietly suppressed, as with the Greeks and Romans, or quickly destroyed, as is still done with newly unearthed Inca and Mayan art. The result of this deception has been a needless polarization of society and untold suffering for those people who happen to fall in love with others of their own sex.
Uncensored, the historical record reveals an opposite reality: the male love instinct is a universal constant. Only society's attitude towards it has varied. All cultures have regulated male love, weaving varied tapestries of ritual around it. And a few have tried - to no avail - to regulate it out of existence.
As a rule, male love was part of the social and religious fabric. From the city states of ancient Greece and Rome with its emperors (Trajan and Hadrian among others), to the Siberian shamans and Native American two-spirit medicine men, from the African tribesmen to Chinese emperors and scholars, people the world over understood and made space for men's vulnerability to the beauty of other males. They accepted that - whether married or not - men fell in love with men or youths, dreamt about them, wrote about them, fought over them, and took them to bed. And they usually understood that boy children were excluded from the game of love, to the same degree that they understood that girl children were excluded as well.
In Ancient Greece love between males was in many ways analogous to the marriages of the time, seen as equally important in the life of the individual, and enshrined in Greek mythology. It was the cornerstone of a cultural tradition that 2500 years ago provoked the awakening of democracy, theater, philosophy, mathematics, history, and so on. Male love was thought to bring out the best qualities in a youth, especially manliness and courage. In warfare soldiers often fought side-by-side with their beloveds, as in the renowned Theban band; later, led by Alexander the Great and his boyfriend Hephaestion, the Greeks conquered the known world. Greece, of course, was no Utopia: prostitution and rape, often attended by slavery, were common.
In Japan,apprentice Samurai paired up with older warriors to be trained in love and war, and even the shogun had - besides his concubines - many boyfriends, their "nanshoku" loves recorded by writers and shunga painters who immortalized "shudo," the Way of the Young. They likewise immortalized the hard lives of the "tobiko" or fly boys, traveling young kabuki actors who had to labor on stage by day and please their clients in bed by night.
In the Moslem lands, famous Iranian and Arab poets such as Hafiz i-Shirazi and Abu Nuwas praised and rued the charms of boys (whom they sometimes plied with wine and seduced). Sufi holy men from India to Turkey sought to find Allah by gazing upon the beauty of beardless youths. Storytellers enshrined gay love tales in the Thousand and One Nights. Artists like Riza i-Abbasi amused kings and princes with exquisitely wrought Persian miniatures and calligraphies. Mullahs and censors railed against male love, but men of all walks of life, from Caliphs to porters, delighted in it and all looked forward to being attended by "unaging youths as beautiful as pearls" once in paradise.
In North America and Siberia, shamanic traditions dating back to the stone age recognized the special spiritual powers of those men and women drawn to same-sex love, as we still see in the Native American two-spirit tradition, which survives to this day.
In the pre-modern west, male love survived mostly underground, visible only when the lovers were unlucky enough to get caught, or when hinted at by artists brave enough to flout convention. Many writers, musicians, painters and poets depicted male love, but always in coded form: Michelangelo, who adorned the Sistine Chapel with vibrant male nudes; Shakespeare, who serenaded his darling boy in his sonnets; Blake who railed against priests "binding with briars my joys and desires;" Whitman, who sang the body electric. The list of luminaries, artists, statesmen, men of the cloth, knights and knaves who felt the pull of male love - by itself, or alongside the love of women - is endless.
The big lie that same-sex love is "against nature," a fiction which flies in the face of both biology and history, depends on censorship for its survival. We at the Androphile Project, gleaning the work of scholars in gay studies, aim to undo that censorship by publicizing gay love's role in man's spirit and culture: its successes, its failures, and the controversies it has given rise to over the millennia. We hope the prose and poetry, religion and mythology, art, philosophy and history collected here from around the world will serve to deepen understanding of male love's place in human nature. As this is being written (winter 2004), it could also illuminate the growing debate about gay marriage, a tradition documented the world over for thousands of years, but nowhere as widely or as recently as in North America, where it was practiced and honored by many of the First Nations.
The documents gathered here are the footprints of the Gay Muse, who has inspired men and women on every continent since the dawn of time. They bear witness to the fact that male love is irrepressible. Where forbidden, it has prevailed over stonings, burnings, lobotomies, schoolyard homophobia, the gallows and the gaol. Where welcomed, it has openly blossomed into the highest achievements of the human mind.
They choose what will be remembered, and what covered up. So it has been with male eros. Looking at any history textbook, one would think that never has a society praised love between men, never has a painter, a poet or a pope shared his bed and his heart with another male. Evidence of same-sex love has been either quietly suppressed, as with the Greeks and Romans, or quickly destroyed, as is still done with newly unearthed Inca and Mayan art. The result of this deception has been a needless polarization of society and untold suffering for those people who happen to fall in love with others of their own sex.
Uncensored, the historical record reveals an opposite reality: the male love instinct is a universal constant. Only society's attitude towards it has varied. All cultures have regulated male love, weaving varied tapestries of ritual around it. And a few have tried - to no avail - to regulate it out of existence.
As a rule, male love was part of the social and religious fabric. From the city states of ancient Greece and Rome with its emperors (Trajan and Hadrian among others), to the Siberian shamans and Native American two-spirit medicine men, from the African tribesmen to Chinese emperors and scholars, people the world over understood and made space for men's vulnerability to the beauty of other males. They accepted that - whether married or not - men fell in love with men or youths, dreamt about them, wrote about them, fought over them, and took them to bed. And they usually understood that boy children were excluded from the game of love, to the same degree that they understood that girl children were excluded as well.
In Ancient Greece love between males was in many ways analogous to the marriages of the time, seen as equally important in the life of the individual, and enshrined in Greek mythology. It was the cornerstone of a cultural tradition that 2500 years ago provoked the awakening of democracy, theater, philosophy, mathematics, history, and so on. Male love was thought to bring out the best qualities in a youth, especially manliness and courage. In warfare soldiers often fought side-by-side with their beloveds, as in the renowned Theban band; later, led by Alexander the Great and his boyfriend Hephaestion, the Greeks conquered the known world. Greece, of course, was no Utopia: prostitution and rape, often attended by slavery, were common.
In Japan,apprentice Samurai paired up with older warriors to be trained in love and war, and even the shogun had - besides his concubines - many boyfriends, their "nanshoku" loves recorded by writers and shunga painters who immortalized "shudo," the Way of the Young. They likewise immortalized the hard lives of the "tobiko" or fly boys, traveling young kabuki actors who had to labor on stage by day and please their clients in bed by night.
In the Moslem lands, famous Iranian and Arab poets such as Hafiz i-Shirazi and Abu Nuwas praised and rued the charms of boys (whom they sometimes plied with wine and seduced). Sufi holy men from India to Turkey sought to find Allah by gazing upon the beauty of beardless youths. Storytellers enshrined gay love tales in the Thousand and One Nights. Artists like Riza i-Abbasi amused kings and princes with exquisitely wrought Persian miniatures and calligraphies. Mullahs and censors railed against male love, but men of all walks of life, from Caliphs to porters, delighted in it and all looked forward to being attended by "unaging youths as beautiful as pearls" once in paradise.
In North America and Siberia, shamanic traditions dating back to the stone age recognized the special spiritual powers of those men and women drawn to same-sex love, as we still see in the Native American two-spirit tradition, which survives to this day.
In the pre-modern west, male love survived mostly underground, visible only when the lovers were unlucky enough to get caught, or when hinted at by artists brave enough to flout convention. Many writers, musicians, painters and poets depicted male love, but always in coded form: Michelangelo, who adorned the Sistine Chapel with vibrant male nudes; Shakespeare, who serenaded his darling boy in his sonnets; Blake who railed against priests "binding with briars my joys and desires;" Whitman, who sang the body electric. The list of luminaries, artists, statesmen, men of the cloth, knights and knaves who felt the pull of male love - by itself, or alongside the love of women - is endless.
The big lie that same-sex love is "against nature," a fiction which flies in the face of both biology and history, depends on censorship for its survival. We at the Androphile Project, gleaning the work of scholars in gay studies, aim to undo that censorship by publicizing gay love's role in man's spirit and culture: its successes, its failures, and the controversies it has given rise to over the millennia. We hope the prose and poetry, religion and mythology, art, philosophy and history collected here from around the world will serve to deepen understanding of male love's place in human nature. As this is being written (winter 2004), it could also illuminate the growing debate about gay marriage, a tradition documented the world over for thousands of years, but nowhere as widely or as recently as in North America, where it was practiced and honored by many of the First Nations.
The documents gathered here are the footprints of the Gay Muse, who has inspired men and women on every continent since the dawn of time. They bear witness to the fact that male love is irrepressible. Where forbidden, it has prevailed over stonings, burnings, lobotomies, schoolyard homophobia, the gallows and the gaol. Where welcomed, it has openly blossomed into the highest achievements of the human mind.
Something for Bush to Put in His Big Ass Mouth
I can only hope that It will shut him the hell up.
Not a very good speaker anyway.
Saturday, September 09, 2006
Matt Dallas, Is he or Isn't he
The hot new Star of Kyle XY, is rumor to be gay, in my book I just don't care. He hot, and fresh. What more is there to know.
If he is I hope he will come out of the closet, if not that is ok with me
Need a better Pic
Male 21 years old STAFFORD, VIRGINIA United States
Hobbies:
Driving around, hanging out with friends, going to the club, watching movies... Btw, ladies...I'm gay. So if you want a friend...you can talk to me. ;)
Latest News:
Favorite Quote:
Procrastination is like masturbation, its all good until you realize you’re fucking yourself! ,
most of the info came from his yahoo profile...http://profiles.yahoo.com/abromc454jive
NEED TO GET A BETTER PICTURE TO USE. HOWEVER ON THE OTHER HAND HE IS KINDA CUTE, I SURELY WOULDN'T PASS HIM UP IN BAR ARE AT THE MALL. I WOULD BRAKE FOR HIM ANYTIME.
MMMM Something I found Very Hot
He has it right, mmmm I just want to tough that package my self, then just pull them briefs/speedo down and to business.
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